Here's a few family member updates:
Bruce's family update:
On Wednesday night, Robert (Bruce's Dad) went to the hospital for heart attack symptoms. We found out yesterday he has to have a triple by-pass. The surgery is scheduled tomorrow morning.
On Thursday, we found out that Bill (Bruce's Step-Dad) had a stroke. It isn't looking very good. He is sleeping 90% of the time and is not eating much. The doctors say he might not recover. He can not use his left side at all. Bobbie (Bruce's Mom) and Bill live in Idaho.
It's a bit weird to have both Dad and step-dad in the hospital at once.
My family update:
This weekend I found out my Uncle Randy is in hospital with seizures. He also lost some of his vision and the doctors don't really know what is causing them. They do think he might have had a stroke in his eye which is not showing up on the CT. I have done some research on seizures and vision and there is a type of seizure called Occipital Lope Epilepsy. Hopefully we will know more in the next few days.
I have another Uncle in Florida that is going through chemo treatments. He has been in and out of the hospital for a number of things.
The boys are doing really well.
Lucas started speech therapy again. He is thrilled to go back. The evaluation was done by using the Preschool Language Scale (PLS-3). He is extremely high auditory comprehension with moderately delayed expressive communication skills.
Luke's age = 4 yrs 7 mos.
Expressive communication = 3 yrs 5 mos.
Auditory comprehension = 5 yrs 8 mos.
Andy will be off track in March. It doesn't seem like I will be having a meeting with the school district regarding placement this month. We do have a meeting with transportation on March 4th. I am trying to get the whole team together on this day to talk about the plan. We'll see what happens...if anything.
We are shopping for a German Shepard. We think we found one we like. I will post photos if we bring him home. Hopefully Charlie our cockapoo will like him.
Well that's it for now. I hope everyone reading this is doing okay.
Last week, Andy was diagnosed with PDD-NOS from a new neurologist. I have been doing some more research on PDD-NOS.
I found this on www.autismspeaks.org website:
Pervasive Developmental Disorder - Not Otherwise Specified, or PDD-NOS, for short, is a condition on the spectrum that has those with it exhibiting some, but not all, of the symptoms associated with classic autism. That can include difficulty socializing with others, repetitive behaviors, and heightened sensitivities to certain stimuli.
Those with PDD-NOS behave like those with classic autism in many ways. First, they are all different (meaning one person with PDD-NOS doesn't act exactly like another; the same holds true for classic autism). When interacting with others, they may appear unemotional or unable to speak, they could have trouble holding eye contact, or they may have trouble transitioning quickly from one activity to the next.
Those with PDD-NOS are different from others on the spectrum in one specific way: While they may exhibit some symptoms of those conditions, they don't fit the bill closely enough to fully satisfy all criteria set by the experts. Perhaps they started having difficulties at a much later age than others on the spectrum. (According to the National Dissemination Center for Children with Disabilities, they are often diagnosed between the ages of 3 and 4 years old.) Or they may have the same challenges — for example, they may be oversensitive to their surroundings — but not to the extreme that others on the spectrum do.
Consequently, those with PDD-NOS are sometimes thought to have a "milder" form of autism, though this may not be technically true. One symptom may be minor, while another may be worse.
Now where does Andy fit in to all this: My opinion is this: I think when he was born the first brain injury was the lack of oxygen at birth. The second brain injury was the subdrual hematoma (otherwise know as "bleed on brain" due to the over use of the vacuum. The third injury was the hydrocephalus that went unnoticed for 6 weeks...allowing the 3rd & 4th ventricles to enlarge. (Therefore, requiring the VP Shunt). So, because there were 3 insults to his little baby head all before he was 2 months old...over time this has now caused him to display Autistic Traits/PDD-NOS.
By doing the intensive physical therapy at Movement Discoveries (5 days a week for 3 weeks) 3 years in a row...Andy was able to over come most of the low tone and build enough strength & muscle to walk independently without a walker. Since his last trip in June 2007 he has not used the wheelchair. He has walked through the zoo and many other long distance trips. (He does stop to take breaks once in awhile but he keeps on going.) Oh I forgot to mention, the ankle surgery he had last year also helped him from having his foot turned in. (He had a club-footed due to the cerebral palsy.) Correcting his foot helped him with his balance.
So where does the PDD-NOS/Autistic traits come in: Here are some of the things he does everyday. (I will add more later.)
1.) Watches Barney videos every minute he is at home from sun up to sun down. He has learned to fastward and rewind the tapes. So, now if there is a sentence or a word on the tape he is watching, he will stop right that word. (for instance: The sentence on the video might be, "Barney, I love you." He will rewind to "Love" and stop at "You" and rewind over and over at "Love" "You. Boy, if you are in the same room with him you will go crazy listening to "Love you", "Love you" over and over again.
2.)He shakes his head side to side. Very fast. (Try doing this yourself...you might not be able to do.). For many years, the school district has told me...he does this because he has CVI...(Cortical Vision Impairment). However, the eye doctor said if he did have CVI, it's so mild and it would not cause him to shake his head the way he does. She said it known as "stimming".
He also flaps his hands when he is excited.
3.) He is non verbal. I understand that many kids with cerebral palsy are non verbal. However, the neurologist and the neuro-surgeon do not see any where on his MRI's that the speech area of his brain was damaged. When Andy was able 18 months he was starting to say a few words...like Mom, Dad, Shoe, More and Home. At the time he was also learning to use ASL/SEE (Exact English) sign language. So, he would sign and say those words. Well, he stopped saying them. He just uses ASL now. However, if he gets really really excited he might be able to say a word...He really tries hard to say words...His latest word is Papa and I have heard him say, " Poo poo". But if I hear a word today I may not hear the word again....like mom, home and more...I haven't heard in years.
4.) So, he knows about 200 words in ASL....so if he wants something....like a taco from taco bell. He will sign it to me all day, every moment of my waking day...if I don't run out to get him a taco from taco bell. He is very strong willed and very persistent. (Most days, it's very maddening.). This also happens if he wants my family members to come over. We try to have a family day where family can come over on Sunday's to have dinner. Well, if those Sundays come and go and family doesn't come over....Boy, we are in for a very long day sometimes a very long week. He will sign the whole family to us every time we look at him. He will not (can not) understand that some Sunday family is busy or we are busy. So changing the routine is a very bad thing in our house.
Andy tries to make routines and if we don't make it a routine...we are in so much trouble with him.
5.) Andy will only eat: tacos (he likes taco bell but he will eat tacos that I make him.) hamburgers from McDonald's, he will eat ham and cheese sandwiches (mostly at school because he only wants tacos at home.) I can make him a fruit smoothie once a day (to try to get some fruit in him) and he now likes spinach raviolis and salad. However, a major problem with him is if he asked for a taco first....and I say no because it's 6 in the morning...He may eat what I make him then after he is done he will immediately ask for a stink' taco.
6.) He has no sense of fear and he has a very high pain tolerance. So in the past we have found him climbing out the second story window after he pushed the window screen off in order to get to Nene's car. (One of his most favorite things is Nene's black car.)Luckily, my mom thought to run upstairs to check to see if he went up here after we all realized he was missing. He has also gone out the front room window after pushing the window screen...Bruce found him out in the street by my van. We have to watch him all the time. He is always running out the front door or the garage door. Now we have an alarm that goes off when the windows or doors open. We just need to use to more often.
7.) Nene's car....he loves it so much that he wants her to come over just for the car. He just wants to be outside touching it.
8.) Doesn't play with toys. He has the physical ability to do so, he just doesn't. Never has.
9.) I can say Andy loves being with people. He loves the idea of them coming over and us going to see them...but once he sees them....that excitement is over within 5 minutes. He is ready to go home or he will start asking when they are going home. It's like he is preparing himself for the departure. It's not a good thing if we or they are not ready to go home. He then makes it very difficult on us and them.
Okay, If you are still reading this...thank you. It's a lot for one reading but I had a few moments to write.
Another personal opinion of mine is I really think even though Andy had a rough start at birth he has over come a lot of his injury/cerebral pasly. I think he is very strong willed and very determined little guy and if he didn't have that I really don't think he would be walking and doing as well as he has been.
Now I need to find him the right therapy to over come or at least help him to over come all or most of his autistic traits.
Until I have another moment.....
I received this from one of my crafty yahoo groups. This is so me and my stuff....I am thrilled to know there is someone else out there like me too....
I have no idea who wrote it....but it's really cute. Enjoy.
Twas the night before Christmas, I'm glued to the tree.
I'm wondering what Santa brought just for me.
Could it be cardstock or chipboard or lace?
Or a Cricut, I said, with a smile on my face.
And that's when I heard him,
"Hi Santa, " I said
"You know....good little girls
Should be in their beds."
"I know I should Santa,
And now I've got caught.
But I was just so excited
To see what you brought."
"Well, let's take a look
In this room where you work.
He shook his head quickly,
And left with a jerk.
I heard him exclaim
As he put it in gear.
"You've got enough crap,
I'll see you next year!"
Hi...It's been months since I last posted....Time has been flying by.
What's happened in the last 6 months....
In June, we finally moved. That was quite an interesting chore. It took forever. We were suppose to move in March....and things didn't go as planned...so we had Plan B, and that became Plan C, and that became Plan D...And well, finally months later we did it. My thoughts at this time is...WE ARE NEVER MOVING again....However, knowing my husband...well, it's just a matter of time before he gets antsy feet again.
Since we moved, we painted the kitchen and 2 bedrooms...Andy's and Lucas' rooms. Andy's is orange and red...with the CARS theme going on. Luke wanted a purple room and we picked out a really nice blue that we thought was really close to purple...and Well, Luke was happy that he got his purple room...Mind you, it's not purple...He does know his colors...so I'm not quite sure what's going on with the purple and blue thing. But he is happy about it.
We had Adam our wonderful physical therapist came and stay with us in November. He worked with Andy for 3 days. I think I will be looking for a Therasuit to purchase for the next time Adam comes. I think Andy will still benefit from it.
We hosted Thanksgiving here...we invited over 30 people...I think it went very well...nothing was burnt....and I think the family and friends will be back again.
We are hosting a Christmas Eve party this year. I haven't even started working on that. The house needs to be cleaned. That is on my to-do list for next week. I will have 3 days.
We made Christmas cookies for most of the neighbors...Luke and I will need to make a few more plates for the rest of the neighbors. We will be starting that tomorrow.
I have been having Scrapbook crops a few times a month. It so nice to have a big enough house to hold them here. I can't wait to have a crop in the play room. I think it will hold about 15 people. That will be fun. Maybe in the next few months...I can get enough of us together.
Well, there's the update for now.
Andy, Lucas & Cait were playing frog jumping today. It was awesome to see Andy doing this!!!
Boy, where does the time go. It's been so long since I last posted. Here's a quick update.
In November I took Andy to Movement Discoveries. They are an intensive physical therapy program in Burlingame, CA. We stayed there for 3 long weeks. My mother in law was able to come with us. She was a big help. Andy did 4 hours of therapy, 5 days a week for the 3 weeks. He did great. By the end of the 3rd week he was able to take 18 independent steps by himself. His legs are so much stronger. He doesn't trip over them like he use to. He still has balance issues but hopefully in the next year he will continue to get stronger and over come the issues. We really want to go back soon.
Lucas stayed home with my husband at night and my mom during the day while Bruce was working. That was a big help as well. While I was gone Bruce was able to clean the downstairs. Where he nicely put most of the toys in boxes in the garage. I have to learn how to rotate them. He was able to get the garage in order so I can do this. It was nice coming home to a nice clean house....but it all changed once I unpacked the van. All I could say to him was, "Honey, I'm home, did ya miss me!!!". I have told him over and over that I am a true "packrat"!!!
While in San Francsico, we went to San Francsico Zoo and to Half Moon Bay beach. Lucas enjoyed the zoo but not the beach. Andy enjoyed the beach but was not interested in the zoo at all. Guess we can't please both of them at the same time. Maybe one day.
Lucas is 18 months old this month. He is signing a number of signs now. "thank you", "please", "red", "more", "potty", "nigh-nigh", "pig", "dad". He was saying "mom" mostly when I was gone but doesn't say it much now that I am back. He loves cars, trucks and animals. He pointed to everything and wants to know what everything is. He loves looking at books where they have the objects he can point to. He knows: pig, sheep, zebra, horse, dog, cat, bunny, cow, tractor, truck, car, clock, fan, banana. I am sure he knows more but I can't think of them now. His favorite drink is chocolate milk! He is getting a sweet tooth, which I am not too happy about. He is so much like his daddy. Lucas also is playing on Andy's computer. We have a game called Reader Rabbit. We have a touch screen monitor that he is able to use. He is able to play this game independently. In fact, Lucas will push Andy out of the way when Andy is trying to play it. Not a good thing, it's too early for them to fight over things. I told Bruce yesterday we need to get Lucas his own computer. He thought I was crazy!!!
Well, I will try to update later with some pictures. Until then, I hope you enjoyed the update.

Andy has done an awesome job this last year as well as this year. I am so proud of him. He has worked so hard.
These are some of the things he has working on to accomplished in 2005....
*In Feb. 2005...we switched phyiscal therapist....what a difference. He is learning to stand on his own. He still has a long way to go but hey....he is doing it.
*In March 2005, he took his first step by himself. Boy, I had tears in my eyes.
*By the end of March 2005, He has taken up to 6 steps by himself.
These are some of the things he accomplished in 2004.
*January 2004...He learned to walk independently with his kaye walker. He now uses it to go everywhere. The only time he uses his wheelchair is if we go shopping and will be walking for a long time. Any quick shopping trips he will use his walker.
*The rest of his accomplishments are not in any kind of order.....
*July 2004...learned to blow bubbles.
*June 2004...learned his colors and the signs of each color.
*Learning to swing on a regular swing.
*Drink from an open cup without spilling.
*Learned 75 signs.
*Recognize his name on paper.
*Dress & undress himself.....He knows how to do this but I still help him alot. (It's a time thing.)
*Using his signs in sentences.
I would like to thank Deanna for all the hard work and time she spent with Andy.....She was Andy's nanny last year. She really worked hard with him to get to where he is today. (By the way, Deanna....he loves his blanket....many times a day he looks at the pictures. Thank you very much.)

Lucas is 10 months old this April month. He weighs 19 pounds 1 oz. and is in the 25% for both weight and height. He is doing really well. He is starting to stand up holding onto furniture, and sitting on his knees . He loves to play with cars and balls.
At 9 months old, he started signing "more" and "all done". He blows kissing and waved bye-bye...backwards. (It's really cute.) He loves eating finger foods and pretty much stopped eating the nasty gerber baby foods. He also learned to crawl.
At 8 months, he started to using his pointer finger...and poking any hole he can find.
At 7 months, he started drinking from a straw. He was working really hard on crawling, getting onto all 4's and rocling back and forth. He weighed 17 pounds 8 oz.
At 6 months, weighing in at 17 pounds....He is rolling everywhere....Loves vegetables but doesn't like baby cereal or fruit very much.
At 5 months, Weighing in at 16 pounds 12 oz. He was sick most of this month with bronocolitis (?). Started rolling back and forth.
At 4 months, Weighing in at 15 pounds 10 oz. He started sitting up. He also learned to roll from side to side.
At 13 weeks old, he laughed out loud for the first time. He loved to cuddle with his blankie and play with his hands and thumb.

October 2004, Andy started horse therapy. Each session goes for 6 weeks for 30 minutes. February 2005, a new session started for another 6 weeks. (This picture was taken March 05.) He has improved so much since the first time he got up on the horse. He is sitting up straighter and he is holding on much better. He is wearing his theratogs which have really made a difference in his posture. He seems to enjoy the horses.







